Beyond the Dust: Building a Wilder, Freer, More Beautiful World

This piece is distilled from three longer essays on why Burning Man still matters. You can read them here [part 1, part 2, and part 3]. These are my personal reflections, separate from the Comfort & Joy non-profit, on why we must keep returning to the dust.

The world is divided. Gloomy, confusing, digital, drowning in consumerism. Systems feeding on domination, competition over collaboration, control over creativity, isolation over connection. But on Playa, something different happens. At Black Rock City, we are building something real—our village, our community, our visionary utopia.

Burning Man is more than just a festival. It’s a living experiment; creativity without limits, connection without walls, self-expression without fear. Proof that a different way is possible.

At first, it’s dust, music, fire; creative chaos. A sensory overload. Stay a little longer, and something shifts. A city rises from nothing. Strangers become family. Radical generosity fuels radical creation. The ordinary dissolves into the extraordinary.

Then, time unravels. No screens, no notifications, no clocks. The desert decides the rhythm—sunrise, dust storms, the burn. You let go. You dissolve into now.

You touch something sacred—the part of yourself that is limitless, untamed, divine, queer.

You see queerness in neon reflections on dust-covered skin.

You hear queerness in bass lines pulsing through the night or in the whispered confessions under a thousand stars.

You taste queerness in the salt of sweat, in the sweetness of radical joy.

You smell queerness in the fire of transformation, in the dust of something ancient reborn.

You feel queerness in the warmth of chosen family, in the freedom of being fully seen.

And you know, with absolute certainty, this isn’t just a place. It’s a blueprint.

Remember, it’s a glimmer in the dark. It’s the ember we must carry into the default world.

And how can we take this home?

Burning Man isn’t just one week.
It’s a way of thinking, living, and creating—wherever or whenever you are.

We are the architects of our own reality.
So, let’s stop waiting for the world to change. Let’s build something wilder, freer, untamed.

Ruby ❤️‍🔥

— see you in the dust

Wanna camp with us?

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